Tuesday, March 24, 2009
How Boys Become Men
In my aspect I think the way we raise are sons have been passed down from generation, to generation. Think about it years ago men had to be tough to survive. You could not be sissy at all you were the worker, the protector, and the provider of everything for his family. And how do you make a man a man back in those days you raise them that way and they start at an earlly age. They started at very young ages working in the feilds standing up for what they thought was right learning to fight and provide. But atleast they were taught this from a young age. How times have changed is now parents raise their sons be proud be strong and dont ever let anyone see you cry or being a sissy. And then they let them out into the world knowing only this. Times have changed and parents dont teach kids like kids used to be taught. And the reason I think our culture is still this way is because it has always been passed down like this but now its in a different way. Boys used to have to be raised tough becuase of the way they lived back then. But today we have modernized we dont have to be so tough, we just havent found the time to take that out of our existence, and to tell you the truth I dont think it ever will. But dont get me wrong sometimes parents get the right idea and let kids be kids and be who ever they are going to be. Thats how my parents raised me and thats how i raise my son. When he falls I let him cry and comfort him, hell he likes dolls better than my daughter but he is still a boy at a babys mindset, its just fun to them. Ive never heard a case study that showed that little boys who play with dolls and cry grow up to be gay or sissy's, Have you? Most of the emotional, caring, sissy type of guys are the ones to grow up and be very successful at least from what ive seen but who am I to say!
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